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Lately, my favorite way to take care of my nervous system has been through daily walks in nature. My nervous system enjoys the visual stimulation (soft lighting and vibrant colors), as well as the auditory input (birds chirping, the creek flowing, and a deep sense of quiet). On a psychological level, being in nature helps me slow down - which I welcome, as my mind can spin pretty quickly sometimes. ๐ Sitting next to a creek, my body naturally releases tension, and starts to breathe more deeply. My gaze lands on a spot in the water, where the sunlight makes the creek sparkle in a magical way - and I stare at this spot for several minutes. My brain loses a sense of time, and settles into a state of simply being, feeling, and sensing. The experience is deeply recalibrating & restorative for my nervous system. What is happening in these moments is a spontaneous & natural form of Brainspotting. ๐ง If you havenโt heard of Brainspotting before - in a nutshell, it is a healing modality that works directly with the deep brain & nervous system, by identifying Brainspots (fixed eye positions in your field of vision) that correlate w/ memories, sensations, & emotions. I use this modality in my counseling practice (which you can learn more about here), and Iโve benefitted from it in my personal healing as well. Healing through Brainpotting can look many different ways. It can look like a structured session, facilitated by a practitioner. It can look like sitting in nature & letting your mind wander as you watch the leaves on the stream. It can look like lying down in your bed, listening to music, and staring at the wall - while deeply processing. The point is: healing can happen in a therapy office, and it can also happen in a quiet spot in nature; in the relationships that we create with ourselves & others; and in the way that we take care of ourselves on an ordinary Tuesday. I hope that you are tending to yourself with kindness, gentleness, and care - today & always. ๐ โ P.S. Know someone who needs to hear this? Forward it along. New readers can subscribe โhereโ. P.P.S. If youโre interested in working together, Iโd love to support you. ๐ป For folks who are overwhelmed & burnt out, but too busy for weekly therapy, I offer Nervous System Healing Intensivesโ โ three 90-minute sessions, using brain-body modalities (Brainspotting, IFS, EMDR) that go deeper than talk therapy & help you feel better, sooner.
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