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I sprained my ankle this weekend, tripping down the stairs… so my agenda since then has been to rest as much as possible. (Which works out great for my cats, who like me best when I’m a stationary object who can double as their couch.) As my ankle recovers, I’ve been reflecting on the healing process, and keep coming back to these core truths/reminders. 🍃 The first truth is that rest is a part of healing. Even when it seems like we’re not doing anything & nothing is happening, doing nothing is actually doing something. Case in point: the past couple nights, I’ve been sleeping more than usual. When I wake up in the morning, I’m pleasantly surprised to notice how much better my ankle feels compared to the day before. The body is capable of self-repair & healing, when we give it the space & time to do so. Though not all cases are as straightforward as my sprained ankle, here’s what is true for all of us: We need rest. Rest is not something we should have to earn after “working hard enough.” It is a non-negotiable, basic right. Rest is not a nice extra thing to have; it is the foundation of everything we are here to do & experience. 🍃 The second truth? It’s important to slow down sometimes. You see, the reason I tripped down the stairs is because I was moving super fast, taking out the trash and not really noticing where my feet were stepping. One second I was upright; the next, I was horizontal on the ground. Super disorienting! Had I taken a few extra moments to slow down & orient to my environment, I may have been able to avoid such a rough fall. Sometimes we learn these lessons (or reminders) the hard way. 🐢 In therapy sessions, I often mention that slow is fast. What I mean is that when we take things slow, and allow the process to unfold in its own time, the healing that we’re wanting to do can happen faster and sooner. Whereas if we were to rush through the whole process, we might end up feeling disoriented, overwhelmed, or flooded… leading to the emotional equivalent of feeling like we just knocked over something, and now have to spend time putting the pieces back together. Remember: 🌸 Moving fast can slow us down in the long run. 🌸 Going slow can help us go far. 🌸 And rest is a part of healing. With much care, P.S. This week, I want to share 2 resources about one of my favorite topics: psychedelic medicines. 🍄🟫 I invite you to listen along if you feel called! P.P.S. If you’re interested in working together, I’d love to support you. 🌻 For folks who are overwhelmed & burnt out, but too busy for weekly therapy, I offer Nervous System Healing Intensives — three 90-minute sessions, using brain-body modalities (Brainspotting, IFS, EMDR) that go deeper than talk therapy & help you feel better, sooner.
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